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My Story & Your Chance “Big in Japan”

Before: The Uphill Struggle of daily life

Over 2 years ago, in the spring of 2008, just before the Greatest Depression, I quit my IT job in England and went to pursue my dreams in Japan.
I always wanted to go to Japan. I knew I could learn Japanese. It was something I just “had” to do. I did not know why until a bit later, when I met Misato, and we were married within a year. I got fairly fluent in Japanese in the process. No motivation like love, I guess. :) And yes, the language school has helped too, to some degree.
Fast forward to 2010. Happy in every way, expect financially. My savings had run out, and finding a decent job seemed unlikely as the economy continued to plummet. So, as most English speakers in Japan do, I have become an English teacher. Which I never desired to be. (I am not even a native speaker – I am from Hungary.) At the schools I found myself being bossed around and spied upon by unqualified, irritating people. I hated every minute of it. At first the pay seemed better then average, but soon I found it wasn’t enough to cover our basic expenses (that with my wife working, too). Nevertheless, for lack of knowing better, I stuck with the job for some time. A lot longer than I should have. As a result I was at a point of desperation. I was working hard at a horrible job I hated and I was not any good at. Despite all the effort I was not able to make ends meet. Worst of all, I had to endure the humiliation of borrowing from friends and family. I was mentally and physically exhausted. Frustration of not being able to provide for my family was overwhelming.

The Search

More than anything I wanted to take a nice long holiday, and, of course, wanted to make a lot of money at the same time. Not just “a living”, but real, big, life-changing money. One that a “just married” couple owning nothing of value could use to start out with and build on. Which raised the question “What can I do, that is worth so much?” Or, as I would put it now, “What can I provide to the world, that will return such an income?” I had no immediate answer. It kept eating at me through, and I knew that if I could find an answer I’d be a big step forward.
In my quest for an answer, just like you are doing now, I turned to the internet. Notwithstanding the amount of in-your-face garbage, it was obvious there were people making it big out there. How on earth? I have been online for 10+ years and never made a dime! So I started to research them. I thought “they can’t be that much smarter than I am”. While it may not be the correct approach, it has fueled my ego to keep going. I was looking for a “secret success formula”, but there seemed to be none. All the most successful people seemed to belong to one particular business though. I did not believe the income claims, but I admired the positive energy radiating from them. “This is what I want to be like.” – I thought. So I put fear aside, ran a few circles, borrowed more money (yes… again), and took action. There was an application process in place, which was kind of re-assuring. The overview page that followed really made me decide to start.

After: How my life has changed

Now I know the answer to the “What can I do…” question above; the education I have received has opened my eyes. I am working from home, living life on my terms, and enjoying it again. It is a brave new world, a world defined by of freedom of choice, self-development, and responsibility. Now I spend time with my wife whenever I want to. I can travel, exercise and pursue my interests whenever I want to. I have become a more patient and relaxed, I am told. “If you enjoy what you do, you will never work an other day in your life.” is by Confucius I believe. It is so true!

What’s in it for you?

After I had this game figured out, I was thinking “OK, this is nice, what next?”
So I took the unoriginal path of helping and coaching every qualified individual interested in the “how to”. That is the test of the pudding after all – can I help others achieve their dreams?
Turns out I can. :)
My current short-term goal until the end of the year now is to help 5 new people out of their jobs.
Ha! “Big deal” – you may think. Have you ever done it though? To give you a hint I do make sure I can give maximum attention and support to my team.
To find out if you qualify, go see my Mission Statement for specific instructions. Talk to you soon.

All the Best,
Sandor
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